

Andrea Zsapka
25 Jul 2025
How my life is richer after 35 years of Dancing
How My Life is Richer After 36 Years of Dancing:
Long Term Benefits of Dance in Life and Business
I started dancing when I was 6 years old with cultural dances. Now at 42, I can honestly say those 36 years on the dance floor changed everything about my life, not just how I move, but how I think, work, and connect with people.
People often ask me, "What's the big deal about dancing?"
The answer surprised even me.
My Dance Journey:
From Culture to Competition to Connection
My dance story began with cultural dances as a child. Those early years taught me that dance isn't just movement - it's how people express their history, values, and joy.
For 25 years, I competed in Ballroom and Latin dances. The discipline, precision, and partnership skills from competition shaped who I am today. And 15 years ago, I discovered Argentine Tango, and it completely captured my heart.
Since then, I've explored Kizomba, Salsa, Bachata, and other dance styles from around the world. Each one taught me something different about people, cultures, and myself.
The Science Behind What I Felt
When I first started dancing as a child, I just loved moving to music. I didn't know that researchers were studying exactly what was happening to my brain and body.
A study from Albert Einstein College of Medicine followed 469 people over 75 years old for 21 years. The results shocked everyone: dancing reduced the risk of dementia by 76%. That's higher than reading (35% reduction) or doing puzzles (47% reduction).
"Dancing integrates several brain functions at once - kinesthetic, rational, musical, and emotional," says Dr. Richard Powers from Stanford University.
After 36 years of dancing, I understand why. Every dance requires you to make split-second decisions while listening to music, moving your body, and connecting with another person. It's like going to the gym for your brain.
What Actually Changed in My Life
Physical Health That Builds Over Decades
Most of my friends already complain about back pain, joint problems, and feeling "old" at 42. The New England Journal of Medicine published research showing that people who dance regularly have better balance, stronger bones, and fewer falls as they age.
At 42, after 36 years of dancing, I feel stronger than I did at 25. I can dance Argentine Tango for hours without getting tired. My doctor always comments on my excellent posture and results during checkups.
The 25 years of competitive dancing built incredible discipline and body awareness. The cultural dances taught me rhythm and expression. Tango and social dances showed me how to truly connect with others through movement.
Business Success Nobody Talks About
Here's what really surprised me: dancing made me better at business.
A study by the University of Missouri found that people who dance regularly score higher on tests of creative thinking and problem-solving. After 36 years, I can see why.
In dance, especially in Argentine Tango, you learn to read people instantly. You feel when your partner is tense, excited, or distracted. You adjust your energy to match theirs. These are the exact skills that make someone successful in meetings, negotiations, and team leadership.
"The spatial and kinesthetic intelligence developed through dance transfers directly to business problem-solving," explains Dr. Howard Gardner from Harvard, who developed the theory of multiple intelligences.
My colleagues often ask how I stay calm under pressure or read a room so well. The answer is 36 years of dancing with thousands of different people from every culture..
The Cultural Education I Never Planned
Understanding People from Different Backgrounds
Starting with cultural dances as a child gave me something special. Each dance comes from a specific culture and time period. Those early cultural dances taught me to respect traditions and learning etiquette.
Ballroom showed me European elegance and discipline. Argentine Tango taught me about passion and authentic connection. Kizomba connected me to African rhythms and community. Salsa and Bachata showed me Latin American joy and celebration.
After learning 40+ dance styles over 36 years, I understand cultural differences in ways that business school never taught me. This helps enormously when working with international clients or diverse teams.
"Dance is the hidden language of the soul," said Martha Graham. I didn't understand this quote when I was 6. Now I know it's literally true.
The Social Benefits Nobody Expected
Real Connections in a Digital World
Research from the University of Oxford shows that dancing with others releases more endorphins than exercising alone. Over 36 years, this created a social network I never expected.
I've made friends all over the world through dancing. When I travel for business, I know people can find my crowd in every major city. Not surface friendships - real connections with people who share something meaningful with me.
The competitive years taught me how to work with partners under pressure. Tango showed me how to create magic with complete strangers. Social dancing connected me to communities everywhere I go.
Confidence That Actually Lasts
A study published in the Journal of Applied Gerontology followed 112 people for 8 months of dance classes. Participants showed significant improvements in self-confidence, mood, and social interaction.
After 36 years, I can walk into any room and feel comfortable. Not because I'm trying to impress anyone, but because dance taught me that everyone has something interesting to offer if you know how to connect with them.
What the Research Shows Long-Term
Brain Health That Builds Over Decades
The Mayo Clinic published a study tracking people for 20+ years. Those who danced regularly maintained cognitive function much longer than those who didn't exercise or did other forms of exercise.
Dr. Joe Verghese, who led the dementia study, explains: "Dancing requires rapid-fire decision making, which builds new neural pathways throughout life."
Starting at 6 and continuing for 36 years means my brain has been building these pathways my entire life. The variety - from structured competition to improvised tango to cultural expressions - keeps challenging my mind in new ways.
Stress Management That Actually Works
Research from Sweden's University of Gothenburg studied 112 teenage girls with stress-related problems. After 8 months of dance classes, 91% reported better mood and 88% had improved self-confidence.
For me, this rings true after 36 years. Dance is my reset button. Bad day at work? One tango and my perspective completely changes. The competition years taught me how to handle pressure. Tango taught me how to be present in the moment.
The Business Skills Nobody Teaches
Leadership Through Partnership
In partner dancing, especially after 15 years of Argentine Tango, leadership isn't about control - it's about clear communication and making your partner shine. These skills transfer directly to business leadership.
"The best leaders I know can read people instantly and adapt their style," says my business partner. "That's exactly what good dancers do."
The 25 years of competitive dancing taught me discipline and goal-setting. Tango taught me authentic connection and presence.
Handling Failure and Mistakes
In 36 years of dancing, from childhood performances to competitions to social dancing, I've made thousands of mistakes in front of people. You learn to laugh, adjust, and keep going. This resilience helps enormously in business where failure is part of growth.
The Long View: What 36 Years Really Taught Me
The biggest benefit wasn't what I expected when I started at 6. It wasn't the physical fitness or even the social connections.
It was learning that growth never stops.
At 42, I'm still discovering new layers in Argentine Tango, learning new cultural dances, and meeting amazing people.
"Life isn't about finding yourself, it's about creating yourself," said George Bernard Shaw. Dancing gave me 36 years of creating and recreating who I am.
The Bottom Line
If someone told my parents when I was 6 that dancing would make me better at business, improve my health, and give me friends worldwide, they might have believed the health part.
But the research proves it, and my life shows it. After 36 years, dancing isn't just something I do - it's who I am. It shaped my character, my career, and my connections with people around the world.
Whether you're 6 or 60, it's never too late to start or restart. Your brain, your body, and your business will thank you.
"After 36 years, I realize that every dance style taught me something different: Cultural dances taught me respect for tradition. Competition taught me discipline. Tango taught me authentic connection. Social dancing taught me that the whole world is my dance floor."
Andrea Zsapka, The Dancing Economist
Sources:
Albert Einstein College of Medicine, New England Journal of Medicine, University of Missouri, University of Oxford, Journal of Applied Gerontology, Mayo Clinic, University of Gothenburg, University of Wisconsin